a piece of advice from somebody who’s been through this a few times already: if somebody gives you a bad vibe trust your gut
things that should not concern u:
- the length of a woman’s skirt
- the tightness of a woman’s top
- how many people a woman has slept with
things that should concern u:
- america’s gun laws
- that u haven’t petted enough dogs today
- harry potter named a kid albus severus
“Blow minds, not dudes”
Actually you can do both! What a concept! That women can be intelligent as well as sexually active! And we don’t live in the goddamn 18th century and women don’t have to be pure little virgin housewives if they don’t want to! Oh my gosh!
having a really good joke but executing it poorly
You actually don’t even have to introduce yourself if you don’t want to, i don’t need an a/s/l, we don’t have to do the “hey whats up” “not much you?” thing, you can just say “so at school yesterday this idiot said…” in my ask box and I will gladly converse with you. Like seriously I will just talk to you like we’re best friends.
yeah this is definitely preferable actually
I just sent in an urgent question about cutting too deep but I think it’s ok bc it’s mostly stopped bleeding after I put pressure on it. Thanks, sorry for wasting your time.
**TW: GRAPHIC SELF-HARM**
You aren’t wasting our time. I’m going answer your question anyway, because it’s important and I want to make sure you’re okay. Is it still bleeding? Regardless, even if the bleeding is under control, it sounds like you might need stitches. Please get yourself looked at, my friend. It could be serious.
The honest truth is that if you think you may have cut too deep, you should go to the hospital immediately, because we aren’t medical professionals and there’s no surefire way of telling you whether you’re okay or not.
There are some general guidelines – if the cut is gaping, if you can see fat tissue, if it won’t stop bleeding – but there’s just no way of knowing unless you get it looked at by a doctor. If any of those guidelines apply to you, you probably need stitches and you need to see a doctor straight away.
While you are on your way to the hospital or waiting for the ambulance, wrap the cut in something clean and apply pressure to the wound. Don’t wait to see if the bleeding stops or not. Call an ambulance or get someone to drive you to the hospital.
I will tell you one more thing. If the blood is spurting (if it’s bleeding in short bursts) that means you’ve hit an artery, which is very serious and immediately life-threatening. If this happens you should call an ambulance IMMEDIATELY. Don’t wait. You will bleed out very quickly if this happens.
Please be safe. There are so many reasons not to harm yourself. Next time you feel like cutting, I would ask you to try and utilize some of these distractions or alternatives. Are you being seen by a professional for your self-harm? If so, I recommend seeing a therapist.
We’re here for you.
Reblogging because this is valuable information for those struggling with self-harm.
little things that help ease symptoms of depression:
- turn the lights on and open a window
- eat something healthy and drink ice cold water
- find a comforting album to listen to whenever things get bad
- take a long, relaxing bath
- do yourself up in full make up and hair
- be around people, even if you don’t think it will help
- watch something funny on netflix
- wear your favorite/most comfortable outfit
- immerse yourself in a hobby like drawing
- lose yourself in a really good book or movie
Oh my goodness, hooray for curing my boredom.. Thank youuu!
2. How long have you known your bestfriend?
I have a couple bestfriends.. So I have known one for five years, and the other for 2 years, 2 months, and 6 days ;)
3. What position do you normally sleep in?
I usually fall asleep on either my right side, or flat on my back. I always wake up on my tummy.
6. Do you wish to travel a lot?
I do think it’s important to travel, and have adventure. Yes I would love to experience the world, but I’m also very content where I am. B.C. is my permanent home, and I don’t like leaving it for long.
8. Show a sample of your handwriting :
I am actually house-sitting, and don’t have my laptop on me.. :$ I will see if I have any on my iPad that I can edit in here :)
12. How did you meet your bestfriend, and how did you become bestfriends?
Well I met Tiffany when I was in the eighth grade. She had just moved here and didn’t know many people. We had a mutual friend, Ashleigh, who said we should all have a slumber party meet&greet thing. Tiffany and I both agreed and were to have a sleep over at Tiffany’s house that weekend. Well up came the weekend, and I arrive at Tiffany’s house, but Ashleigh didn’t show up. We’ll here we are, two complete strangers that have never even talked before, forced to have a sleepover that their mutual friend bailed on. Tiffany and I instantly connected, and have been like sisters since. She never fails to make me laugh, I swear we never stop laughing around each other ‘cause of all the stupid shit we do! Hahah!
I met Sammy when I first created Tumblr. I posted a lot of things I enjoyed initially. I went to TumblrPlug to try and gain followers. I saw Sammy’s blog, liked the things she posted, so I followed. She ended up following me back. For a long while we were just mutual followers, until my blog turned dark. I posted a lot of depressing things, and was very sad and suicidal. Sammy messaged me multiple times a day, on anonymous, just love. Things to keep me going. Eventually one day she came off anon, and just since that day we have been bestfriends. She’s my hero <3
21. Do you think you’d make a good parent?
Honestly… Hell yes! I’m straight up parent material, really. I want to adopt myself a baby boy one day, I’m so excited for the future :)
22. Would you like to meet any of your Tumblr friends in person?
UH, YES. ALL OF THEM!!!
27. Name 5 facts about your appearance :
32. Who do you miss right now?
Tyler, my horse.
37. What is a word you always seem to spell wrong?
I don’t really misspell words. I always seem to misspell road names, though..!
41. When is the last time you got really really happy, and why?
Well, I’m really easy to please. I get happy over everything so.. Probably either the fact that a follower acknowledged me (;)) or my amaaaazzing bubble bath tonight.
44. What’s a band you’ve been obsessed with lately?
handguns, front porch step, my iron lung, the story so far, title fight… so many.
46. Do you have a bucketlist?
Yes, but it’s rather short because my guts don’t exist. #nobawls
49. Where do you go when you’re sad?
Either outside, or in my room.
50. 5 random facts about yourself :